Relationships Archives - Peter Attia https://peterattiamd.com/category/mental-health/relationships/ Tue, 11 Mar 2025 22:38:07 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://peterattiamd.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/cropped-apple-icon-32x32.png Relationships Archives - Peter Attia https://peterattiamd.com/category/mental-health/relationships/ 32 32 #339 – Unpacking trauma: How early wounds shape behavior and the path toward healing | Jeff English https://peterattiamd.com/jeffenglish/ Mon, 10 Mar 2025 04:15:00 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=32976 My coping skills live in a part of the brain that gets hijacked when the emotional brain takes over, and this doesn't always have to be about trauma." —Jeff English

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Research Worth Sharing, October 2024 Edition https://peterattiamd.com/research-worth-sharing-october-2024/ Sat, 12 Oct 2024 16:00:29 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=27037 Using biofeedback to reach weight loss goals, preventing falls with exercise, the impact of social support on stress eating, and an atlas of data on changes related to muscle aging

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#311 ‒ Longevity 101: a foundational guide to Peter’s frameworks for longevity, and understanding CVD, cancer, neurodegenerative disease, nutrition, exercise, sleep, and more https://peterattiamd.com/longevity101/ https://peterattiamd.com/longevity101/#comments Mon, 29 Jul 2024 08:45:32 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=25544 I would say three-quarters of the benefits you can get towards a longer life, come solely from pursuing better health.” —Peter Attia

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Oldies-But-Goodies, May 2024 Edition https://peterattiamd.com/email-roundup-may-2024/ Sat, 25 May 2024 11:00:26 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=25184 A collection of past newsletters on topics including continuous glucose monitors, fish oil, nutritional epidemiology, fostering meaningful friendships, and traffic safety

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#288 ‒ The impact of gratitude, serving others, embracing mortality, and living intentionally | Walter Green https://peterattiamd.com/waltergreen/ https://peterattiamd.com/waltergreen/#comments Mon, 05 Feb 2024 09:45:11 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=24541 We are not self-made, everybody really knows that. The question is, are we going to acknowledge those people that help make us while they're here?” —Walter Green

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#241 ‒ Living intentionally, valuing time, prioritizing relationships, and more keys to a rich life | Ric Elias (Part 2) https://peterattiamd.com/ricelias2/ https://peterattiamd.com/ricelias2/#comments Mon, 06 Feb 2023 09:45:35 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=20284 The day you stop growing is the day that you age.” —Ric Elias

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Does solitude equate to loneliness? https://peterattiamd.com/time-with-others/ Sat, 26 Nov 2022 12:00:42 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=19184 At all stages of life, we spend more time alone than ever before in history. Are we growing lonely?

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#226 ‒ The science of happiness | Arthur Brooks, Ph.D. https://peterattiamd.com/arthurbrooks/ https://peterattiamd.com/arthurbrooks/#comments Mon, 10 Oct 2022 08:45:06 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=18903 Arthur Brooks is a social scientist, professor at Harvard University, a columnist for The Atlantic, and the bestselling author of From Strength to Strength. In this episode, Arthur explains how intelligence changes as we get older, and how to take advantage of this to maximize our happiness and success. He distills truths about the meaning…

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Prioritizing “real friends” over “deal friends” https://peterattiamd.com/real-friends-over-deal-friends/ Sat, 27 Aug 2022 11:00:28 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=18714 According to a May 2021 survey, Americans report having fewer close friendships than they did 30 years ago. But according to a recent conversation I had with author and social scientist Arthur Brooks, friendship is one of the key factors in finding and maintaining happiness as we age. 

 

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#208 – Tragedy, grief, healing, and finding happiness | Kelsey Chittick https://peterattiamd.com/kelseychittick/ https://peterattiamd.com/kelseychittick/#comments Mon, 23 May 2022 08:45:36 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=18077 There's just a real relief when you stop wishing it was different, whatever it is.” —Kelsey Chittick

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#191 – Revolutionizing our understanding of mental illness with optogenetics | Karl Deisseroth M.D., Ph.D. https://peterattiamd.com/karldeisseroth/ https://peterattiamd.com/karldeisseroth/#comments Mon, 17 Jan 2022 09:45:49 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=16543 “It turns out that behavioral states that mammals have, they can be cleanly broken apart into these features, and we could show that with optogenetics.” —Karl Deisseroth

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#190 – Paul Conti, M.D.: How to heal from trauma and break the cycle of shame https://peterattiamd.com/paulconti3/ https://peterattiamd.com/paulconti3/#comments Mon, 10 Jan 2022 09:45:34 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=16513 “Trauma changes the instrument that we use to understand our trauma. It's changing our brain.” —Paul Conti

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#172 – Esther Perel: The effects of trauma, the role of narratives in shaping our worldview, and why we need to accept uncomfortable emotions https://peterattiamd.com/estherperel/ https://peterattiamd.com/estherperel/#comments Mon, 16 Aug 2021 08:45:02 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=16055 I don’t fundamentally believe that one can know oneself without knowing oneself in relationship to others.” —Esther Perel

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#168 – Hugh Jackman: Reflections on acting, identity, personal transformation, and the significance of being Wolverine https://peterattiamd.com/hughjackman/ https://peterattiamd.com/hughjackman/#comments Mon, 12 Jul 2021 09:45:04 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=15967 The world will always need people who are going to do what they love. But know when enough is enough. More is not always better in terms of consuming or just achievement. Be disciplined about doing less.” —Hugh Jackman

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#146 – Guy Winch, Ph.D.: Emotional first aid and how to treat psychological injuries https://peterattiamd.com/guywinch/ https://peterattiamd.com/guywinch/#comments Mon, 25 Jan 2021 10:45:47 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=14731 “We have a choice in the stories we tell ourselves. We don't have choice about the facts, we have choice about our organization, our perspective, and the narrative we create around them.” —Guy Winch

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#142 – Robert Abbott: The Bobby Knight story—a cautionary tale of unchecked anger, ego, and winning at all costs https://peterattiamd.com/robertabbott/ Mon, 21 Dec 2020 10:45:05 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=14651 "That's the genius of Coach Knight—how well read was, how he can motivate people. But ultimately, like Icarus, he didn't understand his flaw and he flew too close to the sun. He couldn't control his temper." —Robert Abbott

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#139 – Kristin Neff, Ph.D.: The Power of Self-Compassion https://peterattiamd.com/kristin-neff-the-power-of-self-compassion/ https://peterattiamd.com/kristin-neff-the-power-of-self-compassion/#comments Mon, 30 Nov 2020 10:45:51 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=14567 “It's not that self-esteem is bad. We want to feel worthy. It's really why we feel worthy, how we feel worthy, that’s important.” —Kristin Neff

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#122 – Lori Gottlieb: Understanding pain, therapeutic breakthroughs, and keys to enduring emotional health https://peterattiamd.com/lorigottlieb/ https://peterattiamd.com/lorigottlieb/#comments Mon, 03 Aug 2020 09:45:32 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=13493 “Change happens gradually, then suddenly.” — Lori Gottlieb

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#119 – Terry Real: Breaking the cycle of shame, anger, and depression https://peterattiamd.com/terryreal/ https://peterattiamd.com/terryreal/#comments Mon, 13 Jul 2020 09:45:31 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=13394 “Family pathology rolls from generation to generation like a fire in the woods taking down everything in its path until one person, in one generation, has the courage to turn and face the flames. That person brings peace to his ancestors and spares the children that follow.” — Terry Real

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#105 – Paul Conti, M.D.: The psychological toll of a pandemic, and the societal problems it has highlighted https://peterattiamd.com/paulconti2/ https://peterattiamd.com/paulconti2/#comments Fri, 10 Apr 2020 09:45:58 +0000 https://peterattiamd.com/?p=12582 "The virus isn't plotting against us. It doesn’t have intelligence. It's invisible. In order to unite, we have to recognize our shared humanity." — Paul Conti

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